branch-2.0 [fix](arrow) fix arrow parquet writer exception handling

[morningman]

see apache/arrow#35520

[Thearas]

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[morningman]

run buildall

[doris-robot]

TPC-H: Total hot run time: 49087 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpch-tools
Tpch sf100 test result on commit 8bcc2f06f0b178ed05664b110e66d0cc19c75e09, data reload: false

------ Round 1 ----------------------------------
q1	17647	4404	4349	4349
q2	2127	151	143	143
q3	10515	1919	1974	1919
q4	10273	1268	1324	1268
q5	8539	3885	3885	3885
q6	233	122	123	122
q7	2052	1629	1584	1584
q8	9277	2722	2710	2710
q9	10187	9786	9774	9774
q10	8664	3532	3547	3532
q11	428	238	254	238
q12	474	300	309	300
q13	18366	3941	4024	3941
q14	343	335	332	332
q15	519	461	464	461
q16	558	449	467	449
q17	1130	952	911	911
q18	7266	6799	6902	6799
q19	1687	1581	1587	1581
q20	528	320	288	288
q21	4349	4168	4102	4102
q22	488	401	399	399
Total cold run time: 115650 ms
Total hot run time: 49087 ms

----- Round 2, with runtime_filter_mode=off -----
q1	4317	4335	4277	4277
q2	327	222	232	222
q3	4166	4148	4131	4131
q4	2758	2750	2745	2745
q5	7190	7143	7102	7102
q6	237	120	118	118
q7	3214	2906	2873	2873
q8	4334	4500	4490	4490
q9	13615	13544	13558	13544
q10	4287	4283	4275	4275
q11	745	673	717	673
q12	1041	878	858	858
q13	7002	3783	3741	3741
q14	453	432	433	432
q15	496	452	453	452
q16	631	580	592	580
q17	3838	3856	3822	3822
q18	8923	8694	8762	8694
q19	1702	1674	1669	1669
q20	2333	2146	2096	2096
q21	8461	8450	8509	8450
q22	1003	948	953	948
Total cold run time: 81073 ms
Total hot run time: 76192 ms

[doris-robot]

BE UT Coverage Report

Increment line coverage 🎉

Increment coverage report
Complete coverage report

Category	Coverage
Function Coverage	38.57% (8314/21555)
Line Coverage	30.27% (68775/227210)
Region Coverage	29.69% (35418/119274)
Branch Coverage	25.45% (18207/71528)

[doris-robot]

TPC-DS: Total hot run time: 212093 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpcds-tools
TPC-DS sf100 test result on commit 8bcc2f06f0b178ed05664b110e66d0cc19c75e09, data reload: false

query1	966	391	381	381
query2	6554	2057	2229	2057
query3	6914	202	204	202
query4	23909	21668	21252	21252
query5	19734	6496	6488	6488
query6	290	218	244	218
query7	4335	295	299	295
query8	251	269	256	256
query9	3099	2684	2566	2566
query10	470	302	302	302
query11	15753	15158	15061	15061
query12	135	77	75	75
query13	1041	465	437	437
query14	18016	13608	13623	13608
query15	375	221	243	221
query16	6485	279	282	279
query17	1919	899	898	898
query18	902	314	315	314
query19	227	155	150	150
query20	109	97	99	97
query21	197	102	92	92
query22	5331	5221	5091	5091
query23	34338	33422	33566	33422
query24	7817	6298	6259	6259
query25	543	446	427	427
query26	1275	165	161	161
query27	2391	299	293	293
query28	6130	2333	2280	2280
query29	2915	2882	2743	2743
query30	243	167	162	162
query31	944	748	775	748
query32	73	59	58	58
query33	450	268	265	265
query34	863	473	478	473
query35	1135	951	915	915
query36	1277	1197	1110	1110
query37	173	61	60	60
query38	3077	2918	2893	2893
query39	1364	1311	1330	1311
query40	320	95	89	89
query41	40	37	37	37
query42	86	90	78	78
query43	614	631	561	561
query44	1147	714	725	714
query45	240	227	227	227
query46	1214	951	933	933
query47	1867	2057	1780	1780
query48	494	411	413	411
query49	648	374	412	374
query50	873	589	599	589
query51	4753	4639	4685	4639
query52	88	81	89	81
query53	231	180	194	180
query54	2668	2436	2484	2436
query55	93	90	85	85
query56	227	212	212	212
query57	1289	1183	1137	1137
query58	216	228	213	213
query59	3476	3377	3498	3377
query60	218	208	205	205
query61	95	104	93	93
query62	821	496	526	496
query63	196	177	173	173
query64	3372	1591	1518	1518
query65	3613	3553	3538	3538
query66	766	386	406	386
query67	15257	15899	14852	14852
query68	10769	635	656	635
query69	530	269	275	269
query70	1715	1299	1424	1299
query71	424	313	329	313
query72	6796	4758	4739	4739
query73	764	319	322	319
query74	6324	5825	5843	5825
query75	5433	3770	3709	3709
query76	6298	1114	1176	1114
query77	1044	254	266	254
query78	12630	11677	11707	11677
query79	7135	641	636	636
query80	1488	393	404	393
query81	493	239	237	237
query82	1614	100	97	97
query83	167	137	140	137
query84	260	71	68	68
query85	877	311	308	308
query86	345	331	312	312
query87	3252	3024	3007	3007
query88	4385	2311	2309	2309
query89	491	322	306	306
query90	1960	215	215	215
query91	155	124	126	124
query92	61	54	50	50
query93	7020	595	590	590
query94	711	211	212	211
query95	2008	1934	2030	1934
query96	647	319	327	319
query97	6503	6395	6302	6302
query98	226	207	197	197
query99	3091	854	880	854
Total cold run time: 322558 ms
Total hot run time: 212093 ms

[doris-robot]

ClickBench: Total hot run time: 30.61 s

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/clickbench-tools
ClickBench test result on commit 8bcc2f06f0b178ed05664b110e66d0cc19c75e09, data reload: false

query1	0.03	0.03	0.03
query2	0.07	0.02	0.03
query3	0.25	0.05	0.04
query4	1.77	0.07	0.06
query5	0.54	0.53	0.52
query6	1.24	0.62	0.61
query7	0.01	0.02	0.01
query8	0.03	0.02	0.02
query9	0.52	0.49	0.49
query10	0.53	0.52	0.53
query11	0.12	0.09	0.09
query12	0.12	0.08	0.09
query13	0.62	0.61	0.61
query14	0.78	0.78	0.80
query15	0.78	0.76	0.76
query16	0.36	0.39	0.36
query17	1.02	1.04	1.02
query18	0.21	0.27	0.23
query19	1.93	1.87	1.86
query20	0.02	0.01	0.00
query21	15.45	0.54	0.55
query22	2.14	2.94	1.59
query23	17.19	0.98	0.91
query24	6.36	1.05	1.34
query25	0.36	0.05	0.06
query26	0.74	0.16	0.15
query27	0.04	0.04	0.04
query28	6.43	0.74	0.71
query29	12.71	2.10	2.31
query30	0.57	0.54	0.53
query31	2.81	0.38	0.37
query32	3.37	0.50	0.49
query33	3.09	3.07	3.09
query34	15.25	4.81	4.80
query35	4.86	4.83	4.88
query36	1.07	1.02	1.03
query37	0.06	0.04	0.05
query38	0.04	0.02	0.02
query39	0.03	0.01	0.02
query40	0.16	0.14	0.14
query41	0.07	0.01	0.01
query42	0.02	0.01	0.02
query43	0.02	0.02	0.02
Total cold run time: 103.79 s
Total hot run time: 30.61 s

[doris-robot]

Load test result on machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'

Load test result on commit 8bcc2f06f0b178ed05664b110e66d0cc19c75e09 with default session variables
Stream load json:         20 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 112 MB/s
Stream load orc:          58 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 18 MB/s
Stream load parquet:      31 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 26 MB/s
Insert into select:       22.1 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 452K ops/s

[github-actions]

PR approved by anyone and no changes requested.

[github-actions]

PR approved by at least one committer and no changes requested.

[morningman]

run feut

[morningman]

run beut

[kaka11chen]

LGTM