[FLINK-36471] Update docker build actions to current versions.

[SamBarker]

What is the purpose of the change

Upgrade to the current versions of the docker actions to avoid NodeJS 12 deprecation

Brief change log

Upgrade to the current versions of the docker actions to avoid NodeJS 12 deprecation

Verifying this change

This change is a trivial rework / code cleanup without any test coverage.

Does this pull request potentially affect one of the following parts:

• Dependencies (does it add or upgrade a dependency): no
• The public API, i.e., is any changes to the CustomResourceDescriptors: no
• Core observer or reconciler logic that is regularly executed: no

Documentation

• Does this pull request introduce a new feature? no
• If yes, how is the feature documented? not applicable