Revert keeping selected element in sync with canvas state

[philippfromme]

Proposed Changes

Due to the numerous issues found (camunda/camunda-modeler#5386) this reverts the changes that lead to these issues. We'll have to look into this again and maybe think about better ways to test the properties panel to make sure we catch these issues in the future.

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