refactor: improve how esm is handled in bob #976

Job	Run time
build (macos, legacy-module, cpp)	1m 45s
build (ubuntu, turbo-module, kotlin-objc)	1m 18s
build (macos, turbo-module, cpp)	2m 12s
build (ubuntu, library, js)	1m 3s
build (ubuntu, legacy-module, kotlin-objc)	1m 14s
build (ubuntu, turbo-module, cpp)	1m 13s
build (macos, legacy-view, kotlin-objc)	1m 52s
build (macos, nitro-module, kotlin-swift)	1m 15s
build (macos, legacy-view, kotlin-swift)	41s
build (macos, fabric-view, kotlin-objc)	36s
build (ubuntu, fabric-view, kotlin-objc)	1m 14s
build (ubuntu, legacy-view, kotlin-swift)	1m 12s
build (macos, turbo-module, kotlin-objc)	1m 18s
build (macos, legacy-module, kotlin-objc)	25s
build (macos, legacy-module, kotlin-swift)	40s
build (ubuntu, legacy-module, kotlin-swift)	1m 9s
build (ubuntu, nitro-module, kotlin-swift)	1m 13s
build (ubuntu, legacy-view, kotlin-objc)	1m 6s
build (ubuntu, legacy-module, cpp)	1m 6s
	22m 32s

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