refactor: improve how esm is handled in bob #980

Job	Run time
build (ubuntu, legacy-view, kotlin-swift)	1m 25s
build (macos, turbo-module, kotlin-objc)	1m 48s
build (ubuntu, legacy-module, kotlin-objc)	1m 38s
build (ubuntu, turbo-module, cpp)	1m 39s
build (macos, nitro-module, kotlin-swift)	20m 57s
build (macos, legacy-module, cpp)	1m 55s
build (ubuntu, library, js)	1m 34s
build (macos, turbo-module, cpp)	2m 22s
build (macos, legacy-module, kotlin-objc)	1m 56s
build (ubuntu, turbo-module, kotlin-objc)	1m 47s
build (ubuntu, legacy-module, kotlin-swift)	1m 26s
build (macos, fabric-view, kotlin-objc)	22m 11s
build (ubuntu, nitro-module, kotlin-swift)	1m 34s
build (macos, legacy-view, kotlin-objc)	1m 51s
build (ubuntu, legacy-module, cpp)	1m 28s
build (ubuntu, fabric-view, kotlin-objc)	3m 32s
build (macos, legacy-module, kotlin-swift)	2m 9s
build (ubuntu, legacy-view, kotlin-objc)	1m 36s
build (macos, legacy-view, kotlin-swift)	2m 4s
	1h 14m 52s

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