mention RDBMS for aws eks doc

[christinaausley]

Description

Closes #7895 -- cloud providers will be addressed more holistically with #8001.

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PR Checklist

• The commit history of this PR is cleaned up, using {type}(scope): {description} commit message(s)

• My changes are for an upcoming minor release and are in the /docs directory (version 8.9).
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• I added a DRI, team, or delegate as a reviewer for technical accuracy and grammar/style:
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[github-actions]

👋 🤖 🤔 Hello, @christinaausley! Did you make your changes in all the right places?

These files were changed only in docs/. You might want to duplicate these changes in versioned_docs/version-8.8/.

• docs/self-managed/deployment/helm/cloud-providers/amazon/amazon-eks/eksctl.md

You may have done this intentionally, but we wanted to point it out in case you didn't. You can read more about the versioning within our docs in our documentation guidelines.