fix(proxy): Race cache lock wait against client disconnect detection

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Summary

• Fixes issue where server-side handlers continue waiting for cache lock timeout even after client disconnects
• Introduces cache_lock_wait_or_disconnect() which uses tokio::select! to race cache lock wait against client disconnect detection
• When client disconnects, server exits immediately instead of waiting for full lock timeout (e.g., 60 seconds)

Problem

When multiple clients request the same uncached resource:

1. One client becomes the "writer" (gets WritePermit) and fetches from origin
2. Other clients become "readers" (get ReadLock) and wait for the writer
3. If a reader's client disconnects, the server-side handler previously continued waiting for the full lock timeout before releasing resources

This wasted server resources and caused delays, particularly noticeable with long lock timeouts.

Solution

Race the cache lock wait against client disconnect detection:

tokio::select! {
    biased;
    lock_status = session.cache.cache_lock_wait() => Some(lock_status),
    _ = session.downstream_session.read_body_or_idle(true) => None, // Client disconnected
}

Protocol Support

Protocol	Disconnect Detection
HTTP/1.1	TCP close (read returns 0)
HTTP/2	Stream reset via poll_reset()
HTTP/3	Via QUIC termination layer signal propagation

Test plan

• Added test_cache_lock_reader_client_disconnect - basic disconnect test
• Added test_cache_lock_reader_disconnect_timing - timing regression test that fails without the fix
  • With fix: Server closes connections in ~0.5ms
  • Without fix: Server waits ~2 seconds for lock timeout
• All existing cache lock tests pass (8 tests total)

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