chore: Adds internal use-merge-refs util

[pan-kot]

Adds useMergeRefs util to be reused between components, board-components, chat-components, and chart-components.

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All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 99.34%. Comparing base (fd512d9) to head (20213cf).
Report is 3 commits behind head on main.

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