CNDB-14650: allow mixed mode repair

[driftx]

What is the issue

Fixes #14650

What does this PR fix and why was it fixed

OSS disallows mixed version repair because the streaming compatibility story is somewhat unknown between versions. This patch allows overriding this with -Dcassandra.allow_mixed_repair=true

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Checklist before you submit for review

• Make sure there is a PR in the CNDB project updating the Converged Cassandra version
• Use NoSpamLogger for log lines that may appear frequently in the logs
• Verify test results on Butler
• Test coverage for new/modified code is > 80%
• Proper code formatting
• Proper title for each commit staring with the project-issue number, like CNDB-1234
• Each commit has a meaningful description
• Each commit is not very long and contains related changes
• Renames, moves and reformatting are in distinct commits
• All new files should contain the DataStax copyright header instead of the Apache License one

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Quality Gate passed

Issues
0 New issues
0 Accepted issues

Measures
0 Security Hotspots
75.0% Coverage on New Code
0.0% Duplication on New Code

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✔️ Build ds-cassandra-pr-gate/PR-1860 approved by Butler

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