feat: Virtualize column organization lists

[mattrunyon]

Fixes #1650

Further improvement for DH-18960 that wasn't part of the ticket, but will be appreciated. The original ticket was big enough I didn't want to add another feature to that PR.

Fixes the issue when dragging lots of columns the drag overlay grew. It is now properly truncating. Also removed the drag handle icon from the drag overlay just to give a bit more room when dragging groups (and I think the handle doesn't make that much sense to show when you're already dragging)

Also fixed the drop animation when dragging from/to a group. Same issue as the general movedColumns fixed in the first PR.

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[mattrunyon]

This is currently not working with the search modal

[mattrunyon]

Ok this is ready for review now

The firefox e2e screenshot is the only one that changed. For some reason the virtualized scroll is measuring slightly different on firefox than chrome/webkit. Not sure why, but it's consistent and not a big deal/worth trying to adjust for just Firefox IMO. Didn't see any issues about it on the @tanstack/query repo

[dsmmcken]

Had a list, dragged a bunch of stuff around, made a group, dragged the stuff in an out of a group. Was generally just bashing on it and it is doing this ^

[dsmmcken]

Well done, can't seem to break it anymore.