[None][feat] Cherry-pick NVIDIA#10335: Use XQA JIT impl by default and mitigate perf loss with sliding window (NVIDIA#10954)

Signed-off-by: Pengbo Wang <221450789+pengbowang-nv@users.noreply.github.com>
Signed-off-by: Wangshanshan <30051912+dominicshanshan@users.noreply.github.com>

Author: pengbowang-nv