core: fix some incorrect EIP-6780 selfdestruct tracer behavior

[jwasinger]

• previously, invocation of BalanceIncreaseSelfdestruct (transfer to recipient of selfdestruct) was duplicated in the hooked statedb and in the opcode handler for the selfdestruct opcode.
• balance is burned immediately when the beneficiary of the selfdestruct is the sender, and the contract was created in the same transaction. Previously we emit two balance increases to the recipient (see above point), and a balance decrease from the sender.
• Other than immediate balance transfer or burn, the other state changes related to account removal happen at transaction finalization. Let's invoke those hooks there.