fix(cli): support Bun / Deno in isMain function

[tcely]

• Move the isMain function to util.ts

• Remove the previous isMain from cli.ts

• Adjust isMain usage in cli.test.js

• Insert import_meta_url into import_meta as url

• Update the build files

Fixes #1383

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