feat(helm): Add health probes to ruler

[lindhe]

What this PR does / why we need it:

Adds configurable livenessProbe and startupProbe to ruler.

Which issue(s) this PR fixes:

Not sure.

Special notes for your reviewer:

Partially replaces #15359

Checklist

• Reviewed the CONTRIBUTING.md guide (required)
• Documentation added
• Tests updated
• Title matches the required conventional commits format, see here
  • Note that Promtail is considered to be feature complete, and future development for logs collection will be in Grafana Alloy. As such, feat PRs are unlikely to be accepted unless a case can be made for the feature actually being a bug fix to existing behavior.
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