[WIP] Drop support for Python 3.9, add support for 3.14

[rly]

Motivation

Python 3.14 was released today, minimum testing with Python 3.9 has issues (#297), and Python 3.9 reaches EOL at the end of the month, so I wanted to see what breaks if we drop support for Python 3.9 and add support for Python 3.14.

Short answer is that it's still too soon so this is a WIP. Python 3.14 is not even available on conda-forge yet.

How to test the behavior?

Run all tests

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