feat: use custom dialer for hdb database connections

[mhilton]

When creating a new database connection to a SAP HANA database use a dialer derived from the provided dependencies.

Closes influxdata/idpe#19468

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[lilic]

Why did we go with 1.25.0 but in other PR we used 1.25.7. I think 1.25.7 is the more correct as it has some security fixes?

[mhilton]

That value is based on the minimum version required for all the dependencies. In the end this will come out to the newest version of the set, but as there are a number of PRs running in parallel for each one it will be what it required by the changes in that PR.