Bump installed ASO to v2.13.0

[nojnhuh]

What type of PR is this?
/kind feature

What this PR does / why we need it:

The last two bumps to ASO in go.mod in #5517 and #5428 didn't also update the version of ASO that gets installed alongside CAPZ which we generally try to keep in sync (e.g. #5170). This PR adds a mechanism to derive the ASO version used for the manifest fed to kustomize from go.mod. This means dependabot PRs for ASO should now generally do the right thing and we only need to exercise the normal amount of care with those (checking changelogs, fixing compile failures, etc.).

Which issue(s) this PR fixes (optional, in fixes #<issue number>(, fixes #<issue_number>, ...) format, will close the issue(s) when PR gets merged):
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Special notes for your reviewer:

TODOs:

• squashed commits
• includes documentation
• adds unit tests
• cherry-pick candidate

Release note:

The version of ASO installed with CAPZ is now v2.13.0.

[nojnhuh]

The changes to this file are entirely whitespace as a consequence of being fed through yq, with the exception of the intended bump to the version and this new comment.

[jackfrancis]

🥳

[jackfrancis]

/lgtm
/approve

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Git tree hash: af19955e10cd301b3611968705d507c6523ccf04

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[nojnhuh]

I don't think we need to backport this. AFAIK CAPZ isn't taking advantage of any new features from newer ASO libraries that aren't implemented in older running ASO instances. Bumping ASO in a patch release might also be disruptive.

[nojnhuh]

/retest

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[nojnhuh]

/retest

[nojnhuh]

/milestone v1.22