refactor: migrate lint tool from isort+black to ruff and apply future style type hints

[waketzheng]

Description

Base on #125

1. [tool.ruff.lint] section was copied from tortoise/pypika-tortoise
2. add 'from future import annotations' by this script:

from pathlib import Path


for p in Path('asyncmy').rglob('*.py'):
    s = p.read_text()
    if 'from typing ' not in s and 'import typing' not in s:
        continue
    t = 'from __future__ import annotations'
    if t in s:
        continue
    p.write_text(t+'\n'+s)
    print(p, 'updated!')

4. auto change code by: ruff check --fix --unsafe-fixes asyncmy && make style && make _check
5. upgrade deps by: make up

[long2ice]

Thanks!