Bump SqlParser to 172.14.1

[caohai]

microsoft/vscode-mssql#18508
This PR bumps SqlParser to 172.14.1 to bring in new features like Vector support.
https://www.nuget.org/packages/Microsoft.SqlServer.Management.SqlParser/172.14.1

I had to make two code changes with this vbump as ParamStartLocation and ParamEndLocation fileds are of type Location instead of Location? now.

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[Charles-Gagnon]

I would also suggest adding dependabot support for nuget package updates as well to avoid things like this getting super out of date again.

See https://github.com/Azure/azure-functions-sql-extension/blob/main/.github/dependabot.yml for an example