chore(schema-validation): add progress toast COMPASS-8861-2

[Anemy]

Last part of COMPASS-8861

In the designs only the success is shown: https://www.figma.com/design/CBHJriBQZ2qxMxtnXFgDxJ/EXPO-3174-%3A-Export-Schema-%2B-Validation-Detection?node-id=1304-36815&t=ouDByoHIQallPTXr-1
Opening as a draft as I want to clear up if we want all 3 of these toasts, some of them, or none at all. For errors it can be loud, and we also show the error in the UI:

The success toast is a bit outside of the user's flow, as the updateCollection command that's run is almost always instant. I did find it to be a nice affirmation though.
There isn't currently any way that visually indicates that the validation rule update is in progress, so I do think that toast could be nice. That being said we should also disable the update button until the response is in. I looked into it and found myself wanting to refactor the state and the modules a bit to make them easier to work with and more inline with the rest of Compass. I'll hold off on making changes there until I get to chat about it with folks and we get the deliverables of the project out of the way.

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[Anemy]

Chatted with Misba, we're going to only have a success toast. We do want an in progress button state, that will require some extra work though so I'll break that into its own ticket. I'll do it in a new pr.