PYTHON-4796 Update type checkers and handle with_options typing #686

Job	Run time
Make SDist	36s
Build wheels for manylinux_x86_64	2m 37s
Build wheels for manylinux_aarch64	10m 16s
Build wheels for manylinux_ppc64le	9m 52s
Build wheels for manylinux_s390x	10m 23s
Build wheels for manylinux_i686	2m 45s
Build wheels for win_amd6	4m 42s
Build wheels for win32	5m 38s
Build wheels for macos	3m 4s
Download Wheels	6s
	49m 59s

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