PYTHON-4324 CSOT avoid connection churn when operations timeout #2102

Job	Run time
Make SDist	32s
Build wheels for manylinux_x86_64	2m 16s
Build wheels for manylinux_aarch64	11m 30s
Build wheels for manylinux_ppc64le	10m 54s
Build wheels for manylinux_s390x	11m 42s
Build wheels for manylinux_i686	2m 37s
Build wheels for win_amd6	6m 5s
Build wheels for win32	5m 14s
Build wheels for macos	3m 23s
Download Wheels	11s
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