PYTHON-4780 Implement fast path for server selection with Primary #2522

Job	Run time
Make SDist	32s
Build wheels for win32	5m 14s
Build wheels for manylinux_x86_64	2m 19s
Build wheels for manylinux_ppc64le	7m 5s
Build wheels for macos	3m 34s
Build wheels for manylinux_aarch64	7m 5s
Build wheels for manylinux_i686	2m 43s
Build wheels for manylinux_s390x	7m 6s
Build wheels for win_amd6	5m 20s
Download Wheels	1s
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