PYTHON-4780 Implement fast path for server selection with Primary #2524

Job	Run time
Build wheels for macos	3m 18s
Build wheels for win_amd6	4m 29s
Build wheels for manylinux_i686	2m 33s
Build wheels for win32	4m 10s
Build wheels for manylinux_x86_64	2m 18s
Make SDist	38s
Build wheels for manylinux_ppc64le	11m 3s
Build wheels for manylinux_aarch64	11m 36s
Build wheels for manylinux_s390x	11m 47s
Download Wheels	7s
	51m 59s

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