PYTHON-4780 Implement fast path for server selection with Primary #2548

Job	Run time
Make SDist	31s
Build wheels for manylinux_aarch64	11m 33s
Build wheels for manylinux_ppc64le	11m 16s
Build wheels for manylinux_s390x	13m 28s
Build wheels for manylinux_i686	2m 39s
Build wheels for manylinux_x86_64	2m 30s
Build wheels for win32	5m 30s
Build wheels for macos	4m 4s
Build wheels for win_amd6	4m 25s
Download Wheels	7s
	56m 3s

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