PYTHON-3414 Improve error message when using incompatible dependencies #8228

Job	Run time
CPython pypy-3.10-ubuntu-latest	2m 30s
CPython 3.9-ubuntu-latest	2m 30s
Docs Checks	42s
static	1m 45s
DocTest	1m 5s
CPython 3.13t-ubuntu-latest	2m 31s
Test using minimum dependencies and supported Python	35s
Link Check	2m 32s
Test async's minimum dependencies and Python	42s
Typing Tests (3.9)	25s
Typing Tests (3.11)	23s
Make an sdist	15s
Install from SDist and Test	1m 1s
	16m 56s

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