PYTHON-3414 Improve error message when using incompatible dependencies #2914

Job	Run time
Make SDist	35s
Build wheels for manylinux_ppc64le	10m 49s
Build wheels for win_amd6	4m 31s
Build wheels for manylinux_i686	2m 53s
Build wheels for manylinux_x86_64	2m 13s
Build wheels for win_arm64	6m 32s
Build wheels for manylinux_s390x	11m 27s
Build wheels for macos	5m 2s
Build wheels for manylinux_aarch64	11m 37s
Build wheels for win32	5m 20s
Download Wheels	7s
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