PYTHON-3414 Improve error message when using incompatible dependencies #2915

Job	Run time
Make SDist	42s
Build wheels for manylinux_x86_64	2m 33s
Build wheels for manylinux_i686	2m 27s
Build wheels for manylinux_ppc64le	11m 8s
Build wheels for manylinux_aarch64	12m 2s
Build wheels for manylinux_s390x	11m 35s
Build wheels for win32	5m 29s
Build wheels for macos	4m 15s
Build wheels for win_arm64	6m 24s
Build wheels for win_amd6	4m 28s
Download Wheels	10s
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