offer to trash like cards on install

[NBKelly]

Added a little checkbox you can tick for if you want to (have the option to) trash like cards on any ice, server or program install.

This works for the runner side (it's the same timing that you trash programs for MU), and it works for the corp side. I also made it so you can attempt to install something in a server that's too expensive so long as it's possible to trash things from that server to price it down enough, instead of just silently failing which is what we currently do.

There's a video in slack/

Closes #7948
Closes #2054 (woah that's an old issue)
and I think it hits the last one of #6497 (other than ncigs, which is going to go out the window in a few months)

[NoahTheDuke]

Good idea but change is not the system to track this. I'm not sure how best to track it (I don't remember if game state has access to user-level options), but change is for in-game numbers that can gain or lose value.

[NBKelly]

I also took it out of change and just added a set-property hook in process-actions, which we can later use for other stuff if needed.