[INSTALL] Unify cmake install functions and dynamically set component dependencies #11471

Job	Run time
CMake test (prometheus, elasticsearch, zipkin)	5m 19s
CMake gcc 14 (maintainer mode, sync)	16m 37s
CMake gcc 14 (maintainer mode, async)	16m 49s
CMake clang 18 (maintainer mode, sync)	18m 34s
CMake clang 18 (maintainer mode, abiv2)	18m 43s
CMake C++17 test(GCC)	4m 53s
CMake msvc (maintainer mode, abiv2)	50m 17s
CMake test (without otlp-exporter and with async export)	5m 54s
CMake msvc (maintainer mode) with C++20	52m 41s
CMake C++20 test(GCC)	9m 23s
CMake C++14 test(GCC)	4m 29s
CMake C++20 test(Clang with libc++)	10m 41s
CMake clang 18 (maintainer mode, async)	18m 25s
CMake test (with opentracing-shim)	4m 40s
CMake msvc (maintainer mode)	52m 2s
CMake C++23 test(Clang with libc++)	10m 51s
CMake C++23 test(GCC)	10m 17s
Plugin -> CMake Windows	46m 2s
CMake -> exporter proto (Build as DLL)	1h 1m 36s
misspell	4s
DocFX check	1m 4s
CMake test (build shared libraries with otlp-exporter and static gRPC)	12m 45s
CMake (With async export) -> exporter proto	48m 7s
Bazel tsan config	5m 48s
Bazel asan config	8m 15s
Copyright	10s
W3C Distributed Tracing Validation V1	4m 20s
CMake test (with otlp-exporter)	14m 18s
Bazel valgrind	7m 49s
CMake do not install test (with otlp-exporter)	13m 19s
markdown-lint	7s
Bazel nortti	5m 44s
Bazel on MacOS	11m 54s
CMake -> exporter proto	54m 59s
Format	1m 10s
Code coverage	12m 59s
Bazel noexcept	5m 45s
Plugin -> CMake	1m 33s
shellcheck	8s
Bazel Windows	39m 32s
Bazel without bzlmod	5m 57s
CMake test (with modern protobuf,grpc and abseil)	19m 25s
Bazel with async export	18m 26s
Benchmark	3m 17s
Bazel	18m 37s
	12h 13m 45s

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