[CMAKE] Update third party dependencies for cmake builds

[dbarker]

Update third party dependency versions for CMake build/install.

Changes

• abseil: 20250127.0 -> 20250512.1
• zlib: v1.3.1 -> v1.3.2
• curl: 8.16.0 -> 8.19.0
• gRPC: 1.75.1 -> 1.78.1
• ms-gsl: 4.2.0 -> 4.2.1

For significant contributions please make sure you have completed the following items:

• CHANGELOG.md updated for non-trivial changes
• Unit tests have been added
• Changes in public API reviewed

[codecov]

Codecov Report

✅ All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests.
✅ Project coverage is 90.05%. Comparing base (ed84877) to head (a38694c).
⚠️ Report is 1 commits behind head on main.

Additional details and impacted files

@@            Coverage Diff             @@
##             main    #3943      +/-   ##
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- Coverage   90.06%   90.05%   -0.01%     
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  Files         226      226              
  Lines        7229     7229              
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- Hits         6510     6509       -1     
- Misses        719      720       +1     

see 1 file with indirect coverage changes

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