docs: fix README app.kubernetes.io/instance issue #4345
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Description:
In README
### Configure resource attributes with labelssection,claims that label
app.kubernetes.io/instancewill becomeservice.instance, which is incorrect.Label
app.kubernetes.io/instancewill indeed becomeservice.nameas in #3797This logic is still valid if we go deep into the code
#4081 misunderstood and falsely "fixed the typo". This PR is to re-fix this issue in
README.md