cURL / OpenSSL core api fixes

[danoli3]

ofURLFileLoader

• fix missing POST (broken by else statement)
• Fix issue for Async threads throwing exceptions (and randomly failing to complete directive)

cURL

• minor update api of deprecated PUT changed to UPLOAD

C/C++: /home/runner/work/openFrameworks/openFrameworks/libs/openFrameworks/utils/ofURLFileLoader.cpp:341:32: 
warning: 'CURLOPT_PUT' is deprecated: since 7.12.1. Use CURLOPT_UPLOAD [-Wdeprecated-declarations]
C/C++:   341 |                 curl_easy_setopt(curl.get(), CURLOPT_PUT, 0);
C/C++:       |                                              ^
C/C++: /home/runner/work/openFrameworks/openFrameworks/libs/openFrameworksCompiled/project/android/openframeworksAndroid/../../../../../libs/curl/include/curl/curl.h:1294:3: note:
 'CURLOPT_PUT' has been explicitly marked deprecated here
C/C++:  1294 |   CURLOPTDEPRECATED(CURLOPT_PUT, CURLOPTTYPE_LONG, 54,
C/C++:       |   ^
C/C++: /home/runner/work/openFrameworks/openFrameworks/libs/openFrameworksCompiled/project/android/openframeworksAndroid/../../../../../libs/curl/include/curl/curl.h:1090:43: note: expanded from macro 'CURLOPTDEPRECATED'
C/C++:  1090 | #define CURLOPTDEPRECATED(na,t,nu,v,m) na CURL_DEPRECATED(v,m) = t + nu
C/C++:       |                                           ^

OpenSSL

• Update createSSL cert from 1.1 style deprecated to 3 EVP_PKEY_CTX_new_from_name

[danoli3]

Chasing a thread / crash bug for these changes ^

Microsoft C++ exception: std::bad_function_call at memory location 0x000000AC985BEE40.

[danoli3]

Okay this is tested and fixes issues with cURL / openSSL and ofURLFileLoader issues for ASYNC downloads and changes to API