feat: add native extension support

[YOU54F]

also updates ruby to 3.3.10

[mefellows]

So if I understand correctly, you now download and bundle OS-arch specific gems into the distribution? What was the behaviour prior to this change? It just used non-native versions of the packages or were there issues?

[YOU54F]

So if I understand correctly, you now download and bundle OS-arch specific gems into the distribution? What was the behaviour prior to this change? It just used non-native versions of the packages or were there issues?

yes, we have had to pin to versions of native gems that are packaged with ruby, updating the versions only when we update ruby.

the main issue was due to windows traveling ruby not supporting native extensions so in order to build the packages for all the platforms, we excluded native gens entirely

this change gives us the latest versions of each native gem we support, which aids us if ruby ever removes from those from the standard gem set, which they are doing release on release