DEPS: Bump optional dependencies #21233

Job	Run time
Pyodide build	11m 31s
Linux-32-bit	11m 18s
python-dev (macOS-13)	11m 31s
Linux-Musl	11m 18s
python-dev (macOS-14)	11m 18s
python-dev (ubuntu-22.04)	11m 28s
python-dev (windows-latest)	11m 23s
python-freethreading	11m 30s
macos-13 actions-310.yaml	11m 56s
macos-13 actions-311.yaml	14m 12s
macos-14 actions-310.yaml	11m 39s
macos-13 actions-312.yaml	12m 0s
macos-14 actions-311.yaml	11m 36s
macos-14 actions-312.yaml	11m 33s
windows-latest actions-311.yaml	11m 28s
windows-latest actions-312.yaml	14m 7s
windows-latest actions-310.yaml	11m 29s
ubuntu-latest actions-310.yaml	16m 13s
Minimum Versions	2m 8s
ubuntu-latest actions-311.yaml	16m 16s
Future infer strings (without pyarrow)	16m 17s
Locale: zh_CN	11m 33s
Locale: it_IT	11m 32s
Downstream Compat	6m 45s
Numpy Dev	11m 32s
ubuntu-latest actions-312.yaml	16m 16s
Pyarrow Nightly	11m 32s
Future infer strings	16m 15s
Pypy	1m 10s
	5h 38m 46s

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