[backport 2.3.x] Update PyArrow conversion and arrow/parquet tests fo… #46719

Job	Run time
ASV Benchmarks	19m 22s
Build Docker Dev Environment	2m 39s
Test install requirements-dev.txt	1m 55s
Docstring validation, typing, and other manual pre-commit hooks	30m 34s
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