DATAAPI-46: skip queue flag updates

[jjannek]

Note

Medium Risk
Changes the conditions under which insert/update/delete operations are enqueued, which can alter downstream sync/queue behavior if the flags are set or interpreted differently.

Overview
Refactors DataApiInterceptors.cfc to centralize all “should we queue?” checks into a new _skipQueue(interceptData) helper, replacing duplicated per-handler logic.

This makes skipDataApiQueue and the skipSyncQueue→API-queue bypass behavior consistent across postInsertObjectData, postUpdateObjectData, and postDeleteObjectData, while still short-circuiting when the application is not yet loaded.

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