Update core extension, build improvements

[simolus3]

This:

• Updates the core extension to 0.4.10.
• Includes the windows aarch64 build of the core extension in :common releases, towards Add support for windows_aarch64 #291.
• For SQLite3MultipleCiphers JNI bindings and static SQLite libraries, this adopts the build to download assets from the last public release instead of compiling them by default. When the CI environment variable is set, we would either compile from source or use a downloaded artifact. This should speed up builds on developer machines.
• Enables --configure-on-demand for CI steps only running a single fixed Gradle task. This should speed up the build somewhat, as Gradle doesn't have to configure projects not participating in the build.

[stevensJourney]

Looks good to me :)