gh-124549: Warn on conflicting directives in datetime.*.strptime

[StanFromIreland]

I agree with @Mariatta:

I created a PR to document this weird behavior. I think it's still worth raising a warning though. #125009

And so I extended your PR, I hope you don't mind :-)

• Issue: datetime.strptime accepts incompatible arguments #124549

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