fix cudnn naming for CUDA 13 package (#7039)

Related to pytorch/pytorch#160956
follow up for #7038

cc @atalman

Author: tinglvv

s3_management/manage.py

@@ -180,7 +180,7 @@
         "nvidia_cuda_cupti",
         "nvidia_cuda_nvrtc",
         "nvidia_cuda_runtime",
-        "nvidia_cudnn",
+        "nvidia_cudnn_cu13",
         "nvidia_cufft",
         "nvidia_cufile",
         "nvidia_nvshmem_cu13",