rptest: upgrade kgo-verifier with additional dataloss checks

[nvartolomei]

Includes the following changes:

• crash instantly on data loss errors kgo-verifier#56

Backports Required

• none - not a bug fix
• none - this is a backport
• none - issue does not exist in previous branches
• none - papercut/not impactful enough to backport
• v24.3.x
• v24.2.x
• v24.1.x

Release Notes

• none

[vbotbuildovich]

Retry command for Build#60312

please wait until all jobs are finished before running the slash command

/ci-repeat 1
tests/rptest/tests/delete_records_test.py::DeleteRecordsKafkaTest.test_delete_records_non_empty_topic@{"truncate_point":"below_start_offset"}

[vbotbuildovich]

CI test results

test results on build#60312

test_id	test_kind	job_url	test_status	passed
rptest.tests.delete_records_test.DeleteRecordsKafkaTest.test_delete_records_non_empty_topic.truncate_point=below_start_offset	ducktape	https://buildkite.com/redpanda/redpanda/builds/60312#01943b7d-48c9-447d-8e4a-3a65cf0aa982	FAIL	0/1
rptest.tests.upgrade_test.UpgradeBackToBackTest.test_upgrade_with_all_workloads.single_upgrade=False	ducktape	https://buildkite.com/redpanda/redpanda/builds/60312#01943b7d-48c9-447d-8e4a-3a65cf0aa982	FLAKY	3/6

[andrewhsu]

git commit looks valid

brings in 5 PRs of change: redpanda-data/kgo-verifier@3c87c1c...8c57630

[nvartolomei]

Some tests are flaky with this change... I did some ci repeats before and i didn't catch it...