Fix issues with resuming async tasks awaiting a future (backport #1469)

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Description

Fixes #1467
Fixes #1405
Fixes #1462

Is this user-facing behavior change?

• The _pending() method in Future has been renamed to pending()
• The user no longer has to do any workarounds with waking up the executor when a coroutine gets stuck awaiting a future that is already finished.

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Additional Information

For #1467, I propagate a guard condition from a task to the awaited future and add this guard condition to the wait set in the executor. When a future is completed by an entity not controller by the executor (e.g. a separate thread), the guard condition is triggered and wakes up the executor so it can resume the task.

For #1405, I just had to make sure the task is not yielded from _wait_for_ready_callbacks when it is not ready to be resumed, hence the Task.ready() method.

EDIT: Check this comment

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	both modified:   rclpy/rclpy/executors.py
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	both modified:   rclpy/test/test_task.py

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[ahcorde]

@bjsowa can you take a look to the backports?