SNOW-1800374: adding support for options and partition_by to dataframewriter

[sfc-gh-batur]

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   Fixes SNOW-1800374

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[sfc-gh-lspiegelberg]

Looks good to me, left some comments. Ping me once it is ready for merge for the final approval!

[sfc-gh-lspiegelberg]

can we add some repeated calls of .mode(...), .option(...), .options(...)? Just to clarify behavior and preserve for the future.

[sfc-gh-lspiegelberg]

lgtm, just one ask/nit to clarify behavior for repeated calls.

[sfc-gh-vbudati]

Looks great. Thanks for adding more test cases as well!