Deprecate -nodeport discovery ConfigMap

[nightkr]

Description

See #765

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[nightkr]

Release note:

The -nodeport discovery ConfigMaps have been deprecated for removal. Use the primary discovery CMs instead. See #765 for more information.

[sbernauer]

Nice!