Rewrite options to control query special modes

[alex268]

Replace options forceQueryMode and forceScanAndBulk by replaceInsertByUpsert, forceBulkUpsert, forceScanSelect

[codecov-commenter]

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Attention: Patch coverage is 85.36585% with 6 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

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Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
...ava/tech/ydb/jdbc/settings/YdbQueryProperties.java	71.42%	2 Missing and 4 partials ⚠️

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