[SPARK-53102][BUILD] Upgrade commons-cli to 1.10.0

[dongjoon-hyun]

What changes were proposed in this pull request?

This PR aims to upgrade commons-cli to 1.10.0 which is the first release tested with Java 25-ea.

Why are the changes needed?

To bring the latest improvements and bug fixes.

• https://commons.apache.org/proper/commons-cli/changes.html#a1.10.0 (2025-07-30)
  • Run Java 24 and 25-ea
  • [CLI-333] org.apache.commons.cli.Option.Builder implements
  • [CLI-339] Help formatter extension commons-cli#314
  • [CLI-340] Add CommandLine.getParsedOptionValues() commons-cli#334
  • [CLI-341] HelpFormatter infinite loop with 0 width input
  • [CLI-343] OptionFormatter.getBothOpt() lacks validation for Options
  • [CLI-344] Option.processValue() throws NullPointerException when passed
  • [CLI-347] Options.addOptionGroup(OptionGroup) does not remove required
  • [CLI-349] DefaultParser.parse() throws NullPointerException when options

Does this PR introduce any user-facing change?

No behavior change.

How was this patch tested?

Pass the CIs.

Was this patch authored or co-authored using generative AI tooling?

No.

[dongjoon-hyun]

cc @LuciferYang

[dongjoon-hyun]

Thank you, @LuciferYang .

[dongjoon-hyun]

Merged to master for Apache Spark 4.1.0.