fix: use limit place holder with dedicated hint

[BobdenOs]

Up until now we have always in-lined the limit value directly into the SQL to ensure that overall best performance. There is now an hint that allows the application to indicate that the place holder value will be "small" (<100.000) for both limit and offset. As most node CAP applications will have negative side effects if the limit is set to 100.000 post processing the data. Therefor the assumption is made that the limit will always be quite a bit smaller.