DAOS-17946 pool,cont: change default properties

[phender]

DO NOT LAND: PR to verify functional tests

Skip-unit-tests: true
Skip-fault-injection-test: true

Steps for the author:

• Commit message follows the guidelines.
• Appropriate Features or Test-tag pragmas were used.
• Appropriate Functional Test Stages were run.
• At least two positive code reviews including at least one code owner from each category referenced in the PR.
• Testing is complete. If necessary, forced-landing label added and a reason added in a comment.

After all prior steps are complete:

• Gatekeeper requested (daos-gatekeeper added as a reviewer).

[github-actions]

Ticket title is 'Document better Defaults for DAOS (RF3, cell size, etc)'
Status is 'In Progress'
Labels: '2.8pp,scrubbed_2.8'
Errors are Unknown component
https://daosio.atlassian.net/browse/DAOS-17946

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Test stage Functional on EL 8.8 completed with status FAILURE. https://jenkins-3.daos.hpc.amslabs.hpecorp.net//job/daos-stack/job/daos/view/change-requests/job/PR-17358/4/execution/node/439/log

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Test stage Functional Hardware Medium Verbs Provider MD on SSD completed with status UNSTABLE. https://jenkins-3.daos.hpc.amslabs.hpecorp.net/job/daos-stack/job/daos//view/change-requests/job/PR-17358/4/testReport/

[daosbuild3]

Test stage Functional Hardware Medium MD on SSD completed with status FAILURE. https://jenkins-3.daos.hpc.amslabs.hpecorp.net//job/daos-stack/job/daos/view/change-requests/job/PR-17358/4/execution/node/616/log