[CI] update do_ci scripts to use common cmake cache scripts

[dbarker]

The cmake options (abi version, preview options, component options, ...) are set explicitly in many places for ci testing now.

This PR updates the ci/do_ci<.sh, .ps1> scripts to set the cmake options from the common test_common/cmake cache variable scripts.

Changes

• update the do_ci scripts to use the common cmake cache scripts.
• fix warnings caught by the windows maintainer mode build

For significant contributions please make sure you have completed the following items:

• CHANGELOG.md updated for non-trivial changes
• Unit tests have been added
• Changes in public API reviewed

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[lalitb]

nice.