Improve statement-store gossiping performance

[AndreiEres]

Description

Fixes gossiping and scalability issues in the statement-store networking.

1. Reduced gossiping traffic by propagating only recent statements instead of all.
2. Added an early check for statements that the node already has to skip duplicate processing.
3. Added splitting of large statement batches to stay under MAX_STATEMENT_NOTIFICATION_SIZE; oversized individual statements are skipped.
4. MAX_STATEMENT_NOTIFICATION_SIZE was updated to the commonly used 1MB, which drastically improved the gossiping speed.
5. Notifications are sent asynchronously. I don't see much difference in performance, but according to @lexnv, it's better to do: poc: async backpressure for transaction notifications #9296.
6. Added a 10s timeout to handle very slow or disconnected peers.

Integration

Internal optimizations to the gossip protocol. No downstream changes required.

Related PR: #9965

Things to handle in further PRs

• After this PR, nodes don't send all statements to new peers anymore, only the recent ones.
• After restarting, the node doesn't re-gossip statements it wasn't gossiped.
• Broadcasting notifications to all peers when the first peer is slow is limited. We could instead use a FuturesUnordered.

[AndreiEres]

/cmd prdoc --audience node_dev --bump patch

[bkchr]

Some tests would be nice for the new send logic.

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